I am so sorry for your experience. I've known about a dozen people who have had this surgery and ALL OF THEM have gained their weight back and have been left with various health problems.
Dec 22, 2007 Rating
I'm so sorry for what you've been through by: Suzette Kroll Barancik, RD)
When I read a story like yours, I just want to cry. But then I go back through and pick out the positives. Here's what I see:
1) You have a devoted husband who has stuck with you.
2) You had five surgeries in the first 3 1/2 months, then only one surgery per year, on average, in the years since.
3) You've persevered admirably.
4) You clearly don't sound brain damaged! ;-)
5) You've achieved acceptance; you know that you'll never be the same, but you've resolved to go on.
6) By sharing your story you're helping others.
I'd say that's pretty good! On behalf of everyone who will read this and think twice about having surgery themselves, I thank you and wish you the best.